If we want to create a better world for everyone, we need to change the way we relate.
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Many of the most pressing problems in our lives and world—such as interpersonal abuse, war, racism, climate change, and, of course, animal exploitation and carnism—stem from the same mentality. This mentality causes us to relate to others—to other people, to animals and the environment, and even to ourselves—in a way that’s dysfunctional. Because relational dysfunction is the common denominator among all forms of abuse and oppression, building relational literacy—the understanding of and ability to practice healthy ways of relating—is the common denominator in transforming all these problems.
When we build relational literacy, no matter what our specific mission is, we’re better able to work toward a shared “metamission” of creating a more relational world, and our lives and movements become significantly more resilient and impactful.
When we increase our personal level of relational literacy, we can enjoy more connected and healthy lives and relationships.
When we increase our collective level of relational literacy, we can make the kinds of healthy choices that are essential for a functional democracy and a sustainable planet.
“Recommended reading for both individuals and therapists!”
— Harville Hendrix, PhD, and Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD, authors of Getting the Love You Want
